factors in "Firelight"

As I said in class, if we view forgiveness as a process, a condition or even a force field, factors can move a situation or group of people either towards forgiveness or away from it.  We agree that Tobias Wolff's story, "The Chain," moves away from forgiveness, and we have discussed some of the factors that push the story in that direction.  For example, our discussion has noted emotions like anger and frustration.  We also have noticed factors like lack of apology and inability (or unwillingness) to consider consequences.  Several of you have phrased this last factor as an inability to pause and reflect.

Wolff also wrote "Firelight."  This story seems to move towards forgiveness, especially when compared to "The Chain."  Do you agree?  If so, what factors contribute to this direction?  If not, what factors do you find overlapping in both stories?  (As you read the story and consider this question, focus on the relationship between the son and mother.  Remember the story's point of view--not only the person but the time from which that person tells the story.)

Special note: If you have been hanging back in the first few posts, push yourself to move towards the front of the line.  I think we will produce richer results, if everyone takes turns entering at different stages.  If you check back to see what people have been writing and want to add an additional comment, I hope we all make you feel welcome to do that.  This venue can encourage people to discuss; let's help people feel free to build the conversation.  We're off to a productive start.